ring jewelryI don’t know about the rest of the male population, but when I think about buying ring jewelry for my girlfriend my heart stops beating and I feel like I’m going to pass out. The only thought going through my head is “how am I supposed to know what kind of ring jewelry she wants.” It’s not like you can surprise her after asking her exactly what she wants. After running into this problem myself I decided it would never happen again. The feeling of helplessness is not something I don’t take lightly. The obstacle was still there though, so my options were don’t buy her ring jewelry, or I could come up with a plan that would force her to explain her ideal ring jewelry without exposing myself.

I came up with a tried and true method of doing this. Lead her to believe you are showing her a watch you like online. “Accidentally” click on the ring jewelry section. After your “mistake” express that it was a mistake by using a simple term like “oops.” Instantly, after your expression, find a characteristic you like on one of the rings, she will feel compelled to either agree or disagree with your thoughts on the ring jewelry. Ask her what she thinks of the next ring jewelry. Once you do that you have her interest and she will point out all of her favorite ring jewelry characteristics whether she see’s it or not. Keep mental notes and you’re in the clear.